Letters to Myself

What Are Men and Women? Have you ever stopped and truly asked yourself—what does it mean to be a man or a woman? Is it just about biology, or is it something more? Are we shaped by who we are, or by what the world expects us to be? From childhood, we’re handed a script. Boys are told to be strong, never cry, and always be the provider. Girls are taught to be gentle, nurturing, and to prioritize family over ambition. We rarely question these roles—we just follow them. But why? The Expectations We Inherit Men grow up hearing that their worth is measured by their ability to provide and protect. Expressing emotions is seen as weakness. They’re expected to lead, take charge, and always have the answers. If they fall short, they’re judged—not just by society, but by themselves. Women, on the other hand, are told that their beauty and behavior define them. They must be likable but not too outspoken, ambitious but not intimidating. A woman who prioritizes her career might be seen as selfish, w...

  Every individual wants a loyal, understanding friend—someone to share frustrations, happy moments, and struggles with. We dream of succeeding together , of ringing the bell of success side by side . We study together, prepare together, and give our exams together. But what happens when results day arrives ? When you check your friend’s result first, and they’ve made it —you’re genuinely happy for them. But then, you check yours… and your name isn’t on the list . The world stops for a second. There are no words to describe that feeling —happiness for them, but shock, heartbreak, and fear for yourself. This is the silent struggle of every middle-class aspirant who faces failure while watching their peers succeed. 1. The Unspoken Pain of Failure When failure hits, it’s not just about you . It’s about your family’s reaction, society’s judgment, and your own self-doubt . You immediately start preparing for the questions: “What will I tell my parents?” “How will I face my relatives?”...

7 Struggles Every Middle-Class Aspirant Faces – And How We Keep Going Introduction Being middle-class is more than just a financial situation—it’s a constant fight between expectations and reality . Every night, I sleep thinking, “Maybe tomorrow will be different. Maybe I’ll finally make it.” But every morning, I wake up to the same struggles, the same doubts, the same pressure. If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck in this cycle, trust me—you’re not alone. 1. The Pressure of Expectations Middle-class families have one dream: financial security . They want us to study hard, get a government job, and make them proud. But what they don’t see is the burden this creates. We’re not just fighting for our future—we’re fighting to fulfill their sacrifices. And when we struggle, it’s not just our failure—it feels like we’ve let them down. 2. When Your Own Family Doesn’t Believe in You I was preparing for an important exam, and my phone broke. It was my only source of study materials. Instead...